Android : Android how to get the right item of an ListeView

I have an ListView with 5 different layouts, one of them is an VideoView. The whole ListView ist like an Circular loop with those 5 items like explained here.

Now i want the VideoView to stop playing when the ListView starts Scrolling. When im thinking right i have to get the right position of the VideoView that is Displayed?

Thanks (Im new to Programming!)